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Navigating the Four Horsemen of Relationships
“happy marriages are based on a deep friendship” - John Gottman Ph.D. Relationships can be some of the most rewarding parts of life, but they also come with challenges that can strain even the strongest bonds. One of the most well-known frameworks for understanding relationship conflict comes from the Gottman Method, which identifies four destructive behaviors known as the "Four Horsemen." These behaviors—Criticism, Contempt, Defensivene
Jacob Somers
Jan 204 min read


Rewiring the Brain 1.1
A Look into a Catastrophizing Mind “There were many terrible things in my life and most of them never happened.” - Michael Montaigne Catastrophization is a maladaptive mental pattern that can deeply affect our emotional and physical well-being. It involves into the worst possible outcome in a given situation, creating a cycle of anxiety, fear, and avoidance. This type of thinking distorts our reality, making challenges feel insurmountable and overwhelming. Understand
Jacob Somers
Dec 3, 20254 min read
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